Friday, November 19, 2010

How to play the game, get back, or control your parents?

Hello, let me first start off by explaining the whole situation. First, I sold an iPhone on eBay. The person paid with Paypal and I trusted that my parents would give me my money soon. I had some cash and bought a dog. I bought the dog with all my cash and my parents bought me what I needed with their Paypal card to start off my puppy. My dog wasn't housebroken and they told me I needed to buy a dog kennel/cage for it. At the same time I had enough money for a video camera and possibly a dog kennel off of craigslist if I could find one. I wanted the video camera so bad and was looking forward to it and knowing that in order to get a video camera, I would have to buy a dog kennel first. I was making several offers on craigslist on dog kennels and was waiting for replies. In the meantime my dog had run out of food and I was going to my friends house to get some that he said he would give me for free. My dad did not know this, and I didn't know he needed to know this either. I wanted my money because, after all, he didn't buy the iPhone in the first place, I paid for it with the money I worked for after years of trying to make money. So I told him, dad I want my video camera or the cash, now. The next morning my mom asked me to clean up and I put it off for a few hours and then my aunt came over offering to take me to the hospital where the newest member of our family was born and staying. I told my aunt I would need like one hour to clean up and she was fine with that. My mom promised me that if I cleaned up then I would be able to go. So I did, and during my cleaning up my dad woke up. My mom told him while I was cleaning about my horrible attitude towards cleaning earlier that morning. After cleaning my dad tried to talk to me and I told him to listen to me. He got mad and twisted my arm really hard (Indian Burn) and grounded me for 2 weeks for talking back. My dad went to the store and my aunt came while my mom was sleeping and I figured, since I was done cleaning, and my mom had checked it before she went to sleep and said good job that I could go with her. Later that day my family comes to the hospital to visit the new born baby while I am there and say I was never allowed to go because my dad grounded me after my mom and I made the promise. He added another week to the grounding. We had to buy my parent's dog, dog food. I stayed in the car and I waited for a while, slightly ticked off that he wouldnt give me my money even though it was mine, in no way was it his. He comes out with his dog's dog food, along with a dog kennel for my dog, and dog food. I told my dad what is all that for he says, your dog, and I used your money. You now have 85 dollars less than before. Not nearly enough to buy the video camera I wanted. I was so ticked off that he would even touch my money and use it without asking me. I know how to find deals and I was going to get free, top of the line food along with a dog kennel for cheap on craigslist. He said well you never bought a dog kennel so too bad I had to buy it for you. He didn't know that I was working out a deal. I figured he wouldn't touch my money because it is mine. So I wouldn't have to tell him what was going on. I then quickly took in the dog food and dog crate in my room and locked it up. I have hopes in taking it back to Petsmart for my money back. He demanded me several times to set up the $55 dog kennel and I refused. I now have a 7 month grounding for refusing to set it up. All because of MY money. He shouldn't have control over what I have to buy with my money and should have given it to me right after the item was sold. He won't let me sell the dog either because ';it's my responsibility.'; I am very, very ticked and I want to know how to ';play the game'; so to speak. For example, my teacher says he ';plays the game'; in his classroom by doing this: He catches someone texting, repeatedly in class, trying to not let our teacher see. He then took the phone after being fed up with it. (He had taken it several times before) but this time he was going to do something different and say to get it after school. Instead, immediately after school he locks the door and turns off the lights and says ';Oops I ';forgot'; and the girl cant use it all night. Also, if you leave a mess after doing a lab and when the bell rings you are having a good time laughing and stuff at the teacher because you think he can't do anything about it will find dried pancake batter all over your table top and chairs and everything the next day waiting for you to clean it up. So is there anyway to ';play the game,'; get back, or control my parents?How to play the game, get back, or control your parents?
you seem to have a lot of needHow to play the game, get back, or control your parents?
Seems like this is all your fault. You wanted the dog and you werent doing the responsible thing for it. You say its all because of the money, well it sounds more like putting off your chores and leaving when your grounded was what really got you into this. Parents should control you, not the other way around. Your out of luck
uhmm, that took me like 10 minutes to read, and you have alot of issuse...



but you dont have to get back at them, why dont you just sit them down and tell them that you think you deserve a little bit more respect because you are a person too.

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